Tuesday, March 18, 2008

Home(sick) Alone

Being home alone since hubby’s been off to Korea has made me realize just how low maintenance I really am. I really don’t need to have every dish clean, every night. A few can sit in the sink. I’m okay with it. The laundry basket doesn’t fill up half as quick with only one person’s clothes in it. And I’ve got two weeks worth of underwear so yeah, I’m down with just letting the basket sit. Not washing clothes is liberating. So’s not cooking. They make healthy meals in a box nowadays. They’re even orGANic. Prep time: 5 minutes. In the microwave.

He’s having a blast. He calls me almost every day. Once, when I didn’t hear from him for a couple of days, I called his mom to see if he was at her house. She sounded pretty surprised to hear from me with my bad Korean and all. She told me he was in Jeonju and yelled at me for not coming with him. I told her I missed her. I couldn’t remember how to properly end a phone conversation so we just sat in silence for a few minutes. I heard her dogs barking in the background. I pictured her house the way I remembered it. Small and squat and surrounded by rolling fields of rice. I know things are growing there already. It won’t be long until the paddies are ablaze in the most amazing shade of green. I miss Korea.

10 Comments:

Blogger Rachel said...

I am glad to hear he's enjoying his visit. Sometimes a little away time can renew a relationship.

I loved your description of your MIL's house. Beautiful writing.

12:50 AM  
OpenID alessandrastarr said...

Awe. You make me miss Korea with your descriptions and I've never even been there!

1:41 AM  
Blogger Daniel said...

good to hear that he's enjoying his visit. :)

I understand totally about speaking on the phone with MIL. I'm terrible at speaking korean especially on the phone with MIL. I totally freeze up and sound like a five year old.

9:56 AM  
Blogger Mama Nabi said...

Ah... that's so sweet that your MIL yelled at you. :-)
I, too, miss Korea. Lucky hubby...

12:14 PM  
Blogger ayac said...

Aww..
mine just got home from two weeks in Korea, what did he bring me? SOCKS!! Gotta love him...
The weather is nice, people are in good mood with spring, he had a nice trip.

Hope your hubby makes a safe and speedy return to you soon!

6:47 PM  
Anonymous halfmama said...

Your 'conversation' with your MIL was so sweet. :) And familiar.

Glad your husband is having such a great time. Hope you can make it back with him next time.

Maybe he'll bring some kimchi home for you on the plane. Hee hee... I don't know why, but your story about the kimchi on the plane always comes to my mind when I smell something funky. It just cracks me up! :)

8:06 AM  
Blogger sunny said...

Hey, why don't you send me an e-mail so I can write you back with a reply to that question you left in the comments of my blog. I'd e-mail you first but can't figure out which one of my contact addy's is yours.

1:39 PM  
Blogger asiangarden said...

Awww, you should have gone too, but I guess you probably had to work! lol
I think being at home alone would be ...wow! I can't even imagine it! lol

12:08 AM  
Blogger Mary Witzl said...

I get awfully tired of making full meals every evening and sometimes long for the days when I was single and could eat when and if I pleased and let my laundry pile up mountain-high... But it does get lonely after a while!

Hope your husband brings back plenty of kimchee.

3:43 PM  
Blogger OTRgirl said...

I hear you on low-maintenance! I live on cereal if Jrex isn't around...

I'm impressed you can even try a conversation in Korean.

9:52 PM  

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